Keeping in touch with some old friends is one of the treasures I consider in my life. After several months of not sharing, still there is a bond felt when given a chance to share what's currently happening in our own lives. At least, despite the distance, updating each other means excitement and eagerness, wishing each other with all the bests in everything.
I have a former room mate and friend whose love affair with his man is somewhat related with mine, with ups and downs, with crazy doings and all of that kind, but having failed to say goodbye after all the flaws.
Women take things and situations very differently from men! While we stay too emotional and too concern with every little detail of their deed, sometimes we forget that they are created differently from us, and we simply forget that they don't react to things the way expect them to.
With our sharing, I realized I am far luckier than my friend. It's just that I don't experience all his sacrifices for his man, I think my man shows me love just enough for me to believe that i should stop worrying for our relationship.
He doesn't say goodbye even if what I always do is to drive him out of my life. I show my worst. But he holds on.
We love for different reasons. Sometimes it may mean we have to sacrifice great things and not expect anything in return. Or we may just have to be blessed enough to be loved by somebody.
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